We All Want Impossible Things is the debut adult novel by Catherine Newman, published in 2022. It was a Richard and Judy book club pick and was hailed as the perfect read for fans of Sorrow and Bliss. I really enjoyed Sorrow and Bliss so knew I had to read this one.
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Plot
Longtime best friends Edi and Ash face a life-altering challenge when Edi receives a terminal cancer diagnosis. Ash steps up to become Edi’s caregiver, navigating the complexities of hospice care while cherishing every remaining moment.
Their story is a testament to the power of friendship, reminding us to embrace life’s joys and find strength in letting go.
We All Want Impossible Things Book Review

What a rollercoaster of emotions this book was! We All Want Impossible Things is a powerful exploration of friendship and loss that somehow left me feeling both heartbroken and uplifted.
From the first page I was swept up in the heartbreaking yet life-affirming journey of Ash and Edi. Catherine Newman masterfully balances witty moments with poignant and tender scenes and the unpretentious writing style only adds to the book’s charm. I found it to be a brutally honest yet sensitive exploration of terminal illness.
I found the character of Ash really endearing. She was messy and flawed but her devotion and love for Edi shone through. Seeing Edi entirely through Ash’s eyes gave a unique perspective on Edi’s life and added a beautiful depth to their bond. Their relationship felt so authentic and was a powerful testament to the enduring power of friendship.
While the book tackles heavy themes, it never revels in the misery. It’s funny yet respectful and allows the characters and their story to truly shine. For a story about death it feels uplifting and reminds us of the power of hope, humour, and human connection, even in the face of tragedy.
While there’s plenty of sadness, We All Want Impossible Things ultimately celebrates life, reminding us of the profound impact one person can have. It’s a touching and thought-provoking read that will stay with me for a long time.
What should I read after We All Want Impossible Things?
If you enjoyed We All Want Impossible Things, I’d recommend The One Hundred Years of Lenni and Margot as it’s another unique and uplifting story about death. For another book with a strong female friendship at it’s core, I’d recommend Maybe in Another Life by Taylor Jenkins Reid.

